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60 - Birmingham, West Midlands, England

I am a single lady living in Birmingham, UK. I am warm‑hearted, outgoing, kind and gentle. I enjoy a...

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75 - Derby, Derbyshire, England

I’m a happy mindful person with no hang ups, I’m a bit spontaneous at times and like to be on the go either...

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75 - Petersfield, Hampshire, England

I guess I could be/am considered to be old school, I like to treat a lady as a lady. I'm a private sort of guy,...

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rockhopper24

59 - Petersfield, Hampshire, England

A well mannered sincere chap who is educated, emotionally literate, and engaging. I have a sunny disposition,...

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67 - Leeds, Yorkshire - West, England

Easy going, tactile, chatty, gsoh. I value honesty and integrity above all else. I love visiting historical...

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