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68 - Heathfield, East Sussex, England

I enjoy animals and the countryside, music and dancing, art and architecture and anything to do with property...

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68 - Hastings, East Sussex, England

Because you're curious and still looking, just like me. Why should people get to know me . . . ? Well I'm not...

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53 - Blackpool, Lancashire, England

I have a bucket list and it would be good to try and do some of it but not on my own. I love a cosy night in but...

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57 - Esher, Surrey, England

Because .. I now have the time and freedom for new adventures , travel and shared experiences with someone...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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